How Do I Say It

INDIE POP

Written & produced for teens coming out to their parents.

A young man realising who they are — but terrified of what happens when they say it out loud.

This is the moment before everything changes.
Not the coming out… the fear before it.

Fear of rejection
Identity vs family expectations
“I’m still me… but will you see me the same?”

Verse 1

Something’s different, I can tell
Same old room but I don’t feel myself
Tried to push it, let it fade
But it keeps coming back the same

Everyone just talks like that
Laugh it off but I can’t laugh
Every word just hits too close
Like they know what I don’t

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Pre-Chorus

I didn’t plan this, didn’t choose
Now I don’t know what to do

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Chorus

I know what this is
I just don’t know how
To say it out loud
To say it out loud

I’m still your kid
I’m still the same
But what if you don’t
see me the same?

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Verse 2

Late at night, phone in my hand
Searching things I don’t understand
Looking for someone like me
Hoping it’s not just me

Every step feels like a line
Cross it once, no rewind
Part of me wants to be free
Part of me wants to leave

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Pre-Chorus 2

What if I lose everything I have?
What if they don’t want me back?

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Chorus

I know what this is
I just don’t know how
To say it out loud
To say it out loud

I’m still your kid
I’m still the same
But what if you don’t
see me the same?

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Bridge (quiet → build)

If I say it
Does it break?
Or does it just
change the shape?

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Final Chorus (resolution)

I know what this is
And I’m ready now
To say it out loud
To say it out loud

I’m still your kid
I’m still the same
And you still see me
just like before

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Outro

Same me…

Man to Man

COUNTRY AMERICANA

Written & produced by me for a story that needed to be told.

A man who spent decades hiding who he truly was — and finally found the courage to stop.

This isn't a song about rebellion. It's about survival, identity and the quiet exhaustion of living a lie.

Identity
Courage
Authenticity
Living two lives

[Verse 1]
Boy next door, same age, same street
Kicking dust after school in the summer heat
Didn’t have words for what we were doing
Just two young boys, no idea what was true

Bedroom door closed, hearts beating fast
Didn’t know then it was something that’d last
Door flew open, his brother right there
Never said a thing—but we lived in that fear

Small town talk travels fast as hell
So we shut it down ‘fore he ever could tell
Buried it deep, like it never began
But it stayed in the back of who I am

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[Verse 2]
Grew up fast, tried to do it “right”
Married too young, tried to live that life
Had two girls, yeah they’re my world
Even when it broke, I supported my girls

Years went on, built another life
Different house, different love, not my wife
That relationship ended, but I stayed in place
Same four walls, but we lived separate lives

Helping raise her granddaughter, doing my part
Even after we split, I still had a heart
Separate lives but under one roof
No more us, but I stayed for the truth

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[Chorus]
Man to man, I can’t hide it no more
Been fighting myself since I was a boy
Tried to live like it wasn’t there
But you can’t outrun what’s always there

Man to man, I’m done pretending
No more lies that I’m defending
I am who I am, no plan
Just a man being with a man

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[Verse 3]
Got on Tinder, tried meeting someone
Swiped for months but nothing would come
Three thousand swipes, not one reply
Just a lit-up screen and another quiet night

Exhausted chasing women, getting nowhere alone
That’s when those thoughts came back… stronger than before
So I downloaded Grindr, didn’t think twice
Thirty minutes in—and it all felt right

No more doubt, no more second-guessing now
First time with a man since back at that house
Half shocked, half like “this is me”
Like I’d been gone from myself for years, now free

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[Verse 4]
Still in that house, had to keep it low
Sneaking out places she could never know
Didn’t want drama, didn’t want that fall
’Cause I knew she wouldn’t take it at all

Living two lives in the same damn place
Smiling by day, then gone without a trace
Told my best mate—the one I live with now
He just stood there like “how’d I not see it till now?”

Said I’d be the last he’d ever expect
But he didn’t judge—just showed me respect

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[Chorus]
Man to man, I can’t hide it no more
Been fighting myself since I was a boy
Tried to live like it wasn’t there
But you can’t outrun what’s always there

Man to man, I’m done pretending
No more lies that I’m defending
I am who I am, no plan
Just a man being with a man

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[Bridge]
Family ties and the weight they bring
Some won’t ever accept this thing
So I walk my line, take my time
Not hiding… just keeping what’s mine

If you ask me straight, I won’t lie
But I’m not living for your reply
Still figuring out where I stand
But I’m good right now… being who I am

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[Outro]
Take your time, don’t rush the road
You don’t need to fit their code
You don’t owe them anything

Man to man… just live your thing

The Touch We Lost

HARD ROCK

Written & produced by me for married men in this position.

A man who loves his partner, stayed loyal, built a life — but lost intimacy… and found it somewhere else.

This is not cheating for thrill — it’s survival for connection.

Marriage vs identity
Physical disconnection
Emotional honesty vs reality
Living two lives

Verse 1

Built it from nothing, brick by brick
Promises made, never broke, never quit
Sunday mornings, family name
Did everything right, played the game

Years went by, something changed
Same four walls but it don’t feel the same
Lying awake where we used to be
Now it’s just space between you and me

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Pre-Chorus

We talked it out, we tried to fix
Every word just turned to this

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Chorus

I kept my vows, I held the line
Gave you my body, my work, my time
But there’s a part of me I can’t outrun
No matter how hard I try to be the one

I’m not leaving, I’m not gone
But I’m not whole where I belong
Between the truth and what I’ve become
I’m with other men for the touch we lost

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Verse 2

Kids came along, life changed its pace
Somewhere in that, we lost that space
Used to reach, used to feel
Now it’s quiet, nothing’s real

Wasn’t one thing we could blame
Just slowly lost along the way
Not about love, that never died
Just no more fire left inside

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Pre-Chorus 2

I buried it deep, I played my role
But you can’t silence a living soul

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Chorus

I kept my vows, I held the line
Gave you my body, my work, my time
But there’s a part of me I can’t outrun
No matter how hard I try to be the one

I’m not leaving, I’m not gone
But I’m not whole where I belong
Between the truth and what I’ve become
I’m with other men for the touch we lost

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Bridge

If I say it out loud, it all burns down
Everything built hits the ground
So I carry it, wear it, play it straight
Living two lives I can’t separate

No heroes here, no easy side
I reached for a man when I couldn’t reach you

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Breakdown

What do you do
When love stays…
but the touch is gone?

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Final Chorus

I kept my vows, I paid the cost
Somewhere in it, I got lost
Still standing here, still holding on
But I’ve been living this too long

I’m not leaving, I’m not free
Just trying to be all of me
Between the truth and what I’ve become
I’m with other men for the touch we lost

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Outro

No clean way
No easy end
Just a life I won’t break…
and a truth I won’t pretend

Green Dot

DARK SYNTHPOP

Written & produced for every man who's been up too late, waiting for a reply.

A man alone in the dark, phone in hand, scrolling through faces that appear and disappear. The hope that lights up with every green dot — and the silence that follows.

Every man in this world knows this feeling. The almost. The ghost. The conversation that meant something and then just… stopped. This is that 2am moment nobody talks about.

The addictive pull of the app
Hope vs reality
Ghosting and the almost-connection
Late night loneliness
The gap between digital and real

[Verse 1]
Screen lights up at half past ten
Another face I'll never see again
Green dot glowing, someone's there
Send a message into empty air
Profile says he's looking too
But looking doesn't mean he's coming through
Tap and swipe and wait and see
Just a grid of men who won't meet me

[Pre-Chorus]
I tell myself just one more look
One more message, one more hook
Maybe this one's different, maybe this one stays
Maybe this one doesn't just fade away

[Chorus]
White light on my face at night
Chasing something I can't quite find
All these men just out of reach
Close enough to almost, never close enough for me
White light, white light
Almost every time
White light, white light
Almost isn't mine

[Verse 2]
He was keen, we talked for days
Then he vanished like he was never there
No goodbye, no reason why
Just a ghost where something used to be
Late night now, back again
Scrolling through the same familiar men
Tell myself tonight's the night
But the app just glows and I'm still up alone

[Bridge]
I know what I want
I know what this is
Just a man on a phone
Looking for more than this
Not asking for everything
Just something that's real
Just someone who stays
Long enough to feel

[Final Chorus]
White light on my face at night
Maybe tonight's the night I find
Someone real behind the screen
Close enough to touch, not just close enough to dream
White light, white light
One more time
White light, white light
Maybe he's mine

[Outro]
Screen goes dark
Room goes quiet
Just me again
Just me again

Still Here

SOUL RNB

Written & produced for every man still carrying a love that doesn't end.

A man who lost his partner of over a decade. He knows what real love between two men looks like — he lived it. Now he's trying to find it again in a world that mostly doesn't want what he's offering.

This isn't about coming out or secret lives. It's about grief, the guilt of wanting again, and the courage to keep trying anyway. Every man who's been ghosted will feel it twice as hard here.

Grief and the guilt of moving on
Loyalty to a man no longer here
The courage to try again
Love that doesn't end just because someone does

[Verse 1]
Twelve years of mornings, same coffee cup
Your side of the bed I still don't touch
Photos on the wall, your coat still there
Some days I forget, then I remember
The boys at the service said he's in a better place
But better place don't hold me, don't see my face
I know how to love, I know how to stay
I just don't know how to start again

[Pre-Chorus]
And everyone says
Time will heal this pain
But time just makes the silence
Sound louder in this space

[Chorus]
I'm still here
Still got love to give
Still know what it means
To really, truly live
Not looking for a replacement
Can't replace what we had
Just looking for someone
Who won't make me feel bad
For still being here
Still wanting more
Still believing love
Is worth fighting for

[Verse 2]
Got on the app, felt like I was cheating
Heart racing like I was doing something wrong
Twelve years of loyalty running through my veins
Swiping right feels like forgetting your name
They ghost me now like it's nothing at all
You never once let me feel two feet small
You knew what this was, you showed me the way
Now I'm out here trying to find that again

[Pre-Chorus]
And everyone says
Just put yourself out there
But out there doesn't know me
Doesn't know what we were

[Bridge]
I talked to you last night
Like I always do
Said baby is it okay
That I'm still trying to move
And I swear I felt you say
Don't waste what we knew
Go find somebody worthy
Of the love I had for you

[Verse 3]
Then he walked in quiet
Didn't say too much
Something in his eyes said
He's been through enough
First time in a long time
Felt something real
Like maybe this world
Still has something to feel

[Final Chorus]
I'm still here
Still got love to give
And now I remember
How it feels to live
Not replacing the memory
That will always stay
Just making room for someone
Who showed up and stayed
Still here
Still whole
Still got everything
Worth giving to someone

[Outro]
You taught me how to love right
I'm carrying that still
Wherever this road takes me
Baby I always will

In My Head

RAP/ HIP HOP

Written & produced for men who cant stop the noise long enough to hear the truth

Every stage of one man's journey from the first confused feeling to finally telling his dad — told in real time, at the speed his mind actually moves. The attraction, the suppression, the app, the first time, the guilt, the spiral, the label he doesn't need, and the conversation he's been terrified of his whole life.

This is every man's internal monologue laid bare. The thoughts that won't stop, the questions that go around and around, the 3am spiral that starts with one feeling and ends somewhere much darker. And then the moment he tells his dad — just a few lines, no drama — and the world doesn't end. It just gets lighter.

First same sex attraction
Suppression and denial
Exploring this world for the first time
Aftermath guilt and shame
The identity spiral
Telling your dad
Peace arriving after the noise

[Verse 1]
Why am I looking at him like that
Why does something flip when he walks past
I don't think about guys I never have
So why can't I get him out of my head

[Verse 2]
It's nothing I'm straight I've always been straight
Just tired just stressed just been working too late
But it keeps coming back every single night
And I'm pushing it down with everything I've got
And I'm telling myself that it's not what it is
And I'm fine I'm completely and totally fine
Except I'm not and I haven't been for a long time

[Verse 3]
Okay so maybe it's real and that's alright
No point fighting something every single night
But now I'm on an app at midnight hiding my screen
Terrified of what these feelings actually mean
What if someone sees me what if someone knows
What if this is something that just grows and grows
What if I'm not who I thought I was all along
What if everything I built my life on is wrong

[Verse 4]
Okay so I'm on here and that's okay
Plenty of men navigate life this way
But there's a conversation and it feels way too right
He's warm and he's real and he wants to meet tonight
And I'm scared of what happens if I walk through that door
What if I like it what if I want more
What if it confirms what I can't say out loud
What if this is the moment the whole story's true

[Chorus — slow, drops right down]
What if it's real
What if it's me
What if the man in the mirror
Is someone I've never let myself see
What if it's okay
What if I'm fine
What if this feeling
Was always mine

[Verse 5]
Okay so I met him and I don't regret it
Something that real you just can't forget it
But I'm lying there after and the voices arrive
Every rule I was handed just to survive
Am I broken am I wrong am I already too late
To be someone who fits in someone who's straight
And the guilt is enormous and real and it lands
Like something I can't hold inside my own hands

[Verse 6]
Okay so I feel guilty but guilt isn't truth
Guilt is just everything they taught me in youth
But am I gay am I bi am I lost in between
Am I everything I was told I shouldn't be
Do I tell someone do I keep it inside
Do I label it box it or just let it ride
And I'm going around and around and around
Same thoughts same questions same spiralling sound

[Chorus]
What if it's real
What if it's me
What if the man in the mirror
Is someone I've never let myself see
What if it's okay
What if I'm fine
What if this feeling
Was always mine

[Verse 7]
Okay so I don't need a label and that's fine
This feeling is real and this feeling is mine
But there's one person who needs to know
One dad and I'm terrified to go
There and say it out loud say this is me
What if he looks at me differently
What if I lose him what if he pulls away
What if everything changes after today

[Verse 8]
So I told him
One person
My dad
Just the words out loud
Before too late
He sat quiet
Then said I've got you
No drama
No judgment
Just me and you
Most honest moment
I've ever been
Finally known
Finally seen

[Bridge]
And I sit in the quiet
And I let it be real
And I stop telling myself
That I shouldn't feel
What I feel
What I've always felt
What was always there
Waiting
Just waiting
For me to stop
And breathe

[Verse 9]
No label required
No explanation owed
No permission needed
Just me
Just real
Just home
Not broken
Not wrong
Just free
Finally
Completely
Me

[Final Chorus]
Yeah it's real
Yeah it's me
Yeah the man in the mirror
Is someone I can finally see
Yeah it's okay
Yeah I'm fine
Yeah this feeling
Was always mine
Always mine
Always mine

[Outro]
This is me
Just me
And that's enough
Always been enough
Always will be

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His Journey

One man. One night. One permanent shift.

HIS JOURNEY PART 1

The Leap

ALTERNATIVE ROCK

Written & produced for every man who ever stood at that door.

A man who's been carrying this for years — maybe decades. Tonight he stops running. This is the moment just before everything changes. Not after. Right there at the edge of it.

Every man in this world has a door. Most stood at it longer than they'd admit. This song lives entirely in that moment — the years of pushing it down compressed into one heartbeat before he finally steps through.

Years of carrying something unspoken
The courage to finally act
The moment before everything changes
Stopping the fight with yourself

[Verse 1]
Been carrying this since I don't know when
Pushed it down, built it back up again
Told myself it was just a phase
Told myself it would go away
Watched other men just live their truth
Wondered what that felt like
Standing on the outside looking in
At something I could never quite fight

[Pre-Chorus]
Tonight something shifted
Tonight I stopped running
Address in my hand
Heart in my throat
Here I am

[Chorus]
This is the leap
This is the moment I've been circling for years
Hand on the door
Legs won't move
But something in me
Is already through
This is the leap
No going back now
No going back

[Verse 2]
Checked my phone about a hundred times
Told myself I could still walk away
But my feet kept moving forward
And my heart had already made up its mind
The street looks ordinary
No one knows what this means but me
Just a man walking toward something
He's been walking away from his whole life

[Pre-Chorus]
Tonight something shifted
Tonight I stopped running
Hand on the door
Legs won't move
But something in me
Is already through

[Chorus]
This is the leap
This is the moment I've been circling for years
Hand on the door
Legs won't move
But something in me
Is already through
This is the leap
No going back now
No going back

[Bridge]
Every reason not to
Every voice that said no
Every year I spent pretending
This is where they go
I breathe out
I knock
The door opens

[Outro]
He's there
And I step through

HIS JOURNEY PART 2

The Heat

DARK ELECTRONIC POP

Written & produced for every man who finally walked through.

What was on the other side of that door. Two men. No script. The body finally saying yes to what the mind had fought for years. Unmistakable without saying everything.

Nobody writes this song. The first time — the heat of it, the realness of it, the strange overwhelming rightness of something you've never done but somehow already knew. This is that moment.

The physical reality of finally
The body knowing before the mind
Vulnerability and surrender as bravery
Something permanent just happened

[Verse 1]
Room is warm
Light is low
Nothing left to think about now
This is real
This is now
Two men and no more questions
His hands
Not what I expected
His voice
Low and certain
Something in my chest
Lets go of something
I didn't know I was holding

[Pre-Chorus]
No more thinking
No more walls
Just this
Just now
Just all of it

[Chorus]
This is the heat
This is what I couldn't name
Skin on skin
Breath on breath
Nothing theoretical now
This is the heat
This is what my body always knew
Before my mind
Would let it through

[Verse 2]
Time moves different here
The world outside doesn't exist
Just the weight of him
Just the realness of this
Just two men
Finding something wordless
Every nerve awake
Every wall gone
This is what surrender feels like
When surrender is the bravest thing

[Pre-Chorus]
No more thinking
No more walls
Just this
Just now
Just all of it

[Chorus]
This is the heat
This is what I couldn't name
Skin on skin
Breath on breath
Nothing theoretical now
This is the heat
This is what my body always knew
Before my mind
Would let it through

[Bridge]
I always thought it would feel wrong
I always thought I'd know the difference
Between right and not right
But there is no difference here
There is only
This

[Final Chorus]
This is the heat
This is what I couldn't name
And I'm not thinking anymore
I'm just here
I'm just here
I'm just here

[Outro]
Stillness
His breath
Mine
Something permanent
Just happened

HIS JOURNEY PART 3

The Aftermath

INDIE FOLK

Written & produced for every man who found himself on the other side.

Walking home alone. Everything society conditioned him to feel — shame, wrongness, unnaturalness — flooding in. And underneath all of it, quiet and unstoppable, one truth: this is the most himself he has ever felt.

This is the part nobody warns you about. Not the shame they promised. Something else entirely. A man walking home in his own skin for the first time — and finding that it fits.

Society's conditioning vs personal truth
Guilt that has no reason
Acceptance arriving quietly
Coming home to yourself

[Verse 1]
Walking home alone now
Night air cold against my face
Everything looks the same out here
But nothing is in the same place
Head full of everything they told me
Wrong and broken and ashamed
And underneath all of that noise
Something quiet saying
That's not my name

[Pre-Chorus]
I should feel guilty
That's what I was told
But guilt needs a reason
And I can't find one
No matter how hard I look

[Chorus]
This is the aftermath
This is the part nobody warned me about
Not the shame they promised
Not the wrong they said I'd feel
Just a man walking home
More himself than he's ever been
This is the aftermath
And it feels like
Coming home

[Verse 2]
I think about every year I spent
Pushing this down below the surface
Running from something that was never running
Just waiting
Patient as anything
All that time I spent becoming
Someone slightly less than true
One night changed the direction
Of everything I thought I knew

[Pre-Chorus]
I should feel guilty
That's what I was told
But guilt needs a reason
And I can't find one
No matter how hard I look

[Bridge]
They had their version of me
Neat and straight and certain
I tried to wear it for so long
It wore right through
And what's underneath
Is just a man
Who finally knows
What he is
And isn't ashamed

[Final Chorus]
This is the aftermath
This is the morning I've been heading toward
Not the end of something
The start of being real
Just a man walking home
Finally in his own skin
This is the aftermath
And it feels like
Coming home
It feels like
Coming home

[Outro]
Same street
Same sky
Different man
And that's alright
That's alright

GOSPEL CHOIR

The Lucky One

Every song here is for the man still figuring it out.

This one is for the man who had it easy — and never forgot those who didn't.

If you ever wished someone had just said "Son, I see you and you're fine" — this one's for you too.

A man who knew from boyhood, had parents who saw it and accepted it, found love and built a life. No hiding, no double life, no struggle. Just a man who got the version of this that most men on this site never had. And who thinks about them every day.

This is the song every man on this site wishes was his story. The lucky one isn't singing to show off — he's singing with gratitude and grief at the same time. The bridge where he thinks about the boy who had no one, the dad who never said the right thing — that's the moment that will break you open.

Acceptance from the beginning
Parents who got it right
Love found without the struggle
Gratitude for what others never had
Compassion for every man still finding his way

[Verse 1]
I knew from a boy what I was
Didn't have a name for it then
Just knew that something was different
Just knew what I felt about men
Didn't fight it didn't hide it
Just let it be what it was
Grew up knowing who I was becoming
And I never had to pause

[Pre-Chorus]
And I know not everyone gets that
I know not everyone does
I know some men carry this alone
In the quiet and the dark because

[Chorus — full gospel choir]
I am the lucky one
Loved before I knew the word
Seen before I said a thing
Heard before I could be heard
I am the lucky one
And I don't take it for granted
Every man who walks this road alone
I see you I understand it
I am the lucky one

[Verse 2]
My parents saw it early
Never made it something wrong
Just held space for who I was becoming
Just helped me grow up strong
No hiding no compartments
No double life to maintain
Just a boy becoming a man
Who never had to live in pain

[Pre-Chorus]
And I know not everyone gets that
I know not everyone does
I know some men carry this alone
In the quiet and the dark because

[Verse 3]
And then I found him
The one who stayed
Built a life together
Unafraid
Woke up beside him
Every day
Grateful for the easy road
That led me here
That let me stay

[Bridge — drops to solo voice, quiet and tender]
But I think about the man
Who knew at the same age I did
Who carried it in silence
Who kept it hidden as a kid
Who never had a parent say
Son I see you and you're fine
Who never had someone to hold
Who spent years on the wrong side of that line
I think about the man
Still figuring it out tonight
Still alone with all these questions
Still afraid to step into the light
This song is for you brother
You're not broken you're not wrong
You're just a man who needed someone
To have sung this kind of song

[Final Chorus — full choir, swelling]
You are the lucky one
Even if it doesn't feel that way
Even if the road is harder
Even if you lose your way
You are the lucky one
Because you're still here still standing
Still trying still searching still becoming
Still everything worth understanding
You are the lucky one
We are the lucky ones
We are the lucky ones
We are

[Outro — choir humming, fading]
You are seen
You are known
You are not
Walking this alone
You are seen
You are known
You are not
Walking this alone

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HIS JOURNEY PART 2

The Heat

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HIS JOURNEY PART 3

The Aftermath

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The Lucky One

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